Does reading aloud still have value if your kids can read independently? It’s a common question faced by big kid families. This post is full of reasons to keep reading to kids at every age (and includes some of my favorite read-aloud books for families).
The Importance of Read-Alouds
There’s no question that we value reading aloud when our kids are little. Picture books, library story times, and bedtime stories are standard parts of younger-kid parenting.
But so often those kids grow up, become independent readers, and – poof! – we stop reading aloud. Why don’t we still value time spent reading together?
I’m confident this message has made it to you: reading aloud is essential for young kids to learn and grow. It’s huge in their development of language, critical thinking, and fluency.
Unfortunately, there’s also a pretty common message that once those same kids learn to read on their own, the job is all theirs. Our kids become readers and suddenly silent reading takes over. Read-alouds start to fade.
But read-alouds still matter.
They hold immense value.
Kids need to hear you read to them long after they’ve been labeled “independent readers.”
Reading aloud continues to be critical as our kids “age up.” It’s also one of my very favorite parts of parenting – from the toddler to the teen years.
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Read Aloud Reason #1: Introducing More Challenging Books
Kids are capable of listening to and following along with a more advanced book way before they’re ready to tackle one on their own. Hearing you read a book beyond their current reading level lets them experience story structure, character development, and language they aren’t getting in their silent reading.
Without read-alouds, kids can get stuck reading the same kind of books over and over or in a literary rut as their reading skills develop. Reading with you expands their world.
READ ALOUD RECOMMENDATION: One of our favorite books that we read together- and one they would not be successful at reading on their own (yet) was The Lion, the Witch & the Wardrobe.
Read Aloud Reason #2: Increasing Vocabulary & Fluency
Reading aloud rich, “meaty” chapter books and diverse picture books keeps growing our big kids’ vocabulary – just like it did when they were toddlers.
It strengthens their own reading skills as they hear fluency, rhythm, and expression. Our kids become better independent readers (and eventually, writers) by listening to an experienced reader (that’s you!).
READ ALOUD RECOMMENDATION: A book we’ve read that’s taught my kids so much about literary devices & vocabulary? A Wolf Called Wander. Beautifully written from a very unique perspective.
Read Aloud Reason #3: Nurturing Empathy & Curiosity
When we read aloud, we get to choose the books. We can focus on topics we know our kids might not choose on their own for silent reading. Read-aloud time can become a “way in” to discussing complex issues – historical events, social justice, conflict, and emotions.
Lecturing our kids on these subjects doesn’t always work, but experiencing them through story (and opening the door to a conversation after reading) just might.
READ ALOUD RECOMMENDATION: Reading Out of My Mind together sparked so much conversation, empathy, and perspective. None of us will ever forget it.
Read Aloud Reason #4: Building Family Connection
Here’s a little magic: reading aloud together gives you a shared experience, something to talk about, a way to connect – especially on days when conversation feels tough. Books can help. Read-alouds can create common ground.
If big kids are grumpy, the family feels disjointed, or moods are blue – there’s nothing like grabbing a snack, a few cozy blankets, and piling on the couch together with a book. Don’t underestimate the transformative power of time spent discovering stories together.
READ ALOUD RECOMMENDATION: Comet in Moominland snuck up on us and has nestled into our family culture in a way I never expected. It’s charming, fun, and quirky- and perfect for us.
Two Notes About Read Alouds:
1. If reading aloud feels awkward or doesn’t come naturally to you, I get it. It’s a skill you can practice with (truly) the most forgiving audience. Our kids don’t need perfect readers. They just need time with you and books.
2. Don’t ask or expect kids to just “sit and listen.” Let them do something quiet while they listen. Odds are you’ll get less push back and better buy-in if they can color, do a puzzle, or move their body with a quiet fidget toy. Looking for quiet fidget toys for kids? Check out a few of my favorites on this list.
Just because a child can read doesn’t mean they’ve outgrown being read to.
Let’s keep reading aloud to our kids – whatever the age.
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