Looking for absolutely person non-toy gifts for kids? That’s this gift guide filled with an assortment of amazing ideas for kids and suggested pairings for a themed gift. Don’t gloss over non-toy gifts for the holiday season: these presents pack a major “wow.”
What are non-toy gifts for kids?
Gifts for kids don’t always need to be toys.
This list of non-toy gifts for kids is full of items that aren’t traditional toys. There’s nothing here to build with or for imaginative play, and yet, these gifts are still just as enriching to a child’s life.
Think of non-toy gifts as a way to honor a child’s interests or expand on what they already love. They can be a great opportunity to introduce something new or to give a thoughtful, personalized present that truly reflects who that child is.
Why I love physical non-toy gifts for kids
This list focuses on non-toy gifts that kids can open, hold, and use right away. These are different from other wonderful non-toy gifts like memberships, subscriptions, classes, or experience-based coupon books.
While those are all amazing gifts, kids live in the here and now. They’re not always able to fully appreciate a future experience or a subscription service – even as tweens. It’s harder for them to grasp something abstract, like a class they’ll attend later or a membership they’ll use someday.
That’s why I prefer giving kids physical non-toy gifts: things they can unwrap, understand, and enjoy immediately.
Now, don’t get me wrong, memberships and gift cards are fantastic family gifts and can be incredibly helpful. I’m not discounting their value at all, but when it comes to making a child feel that immediate joy that gift givers are often going for, a tangible, physical gift often works best.
Remember, non-toy gifts do not have a gender
Always remember: gifts for children don’t have a gender. Every item on this list is for kids, period. Gifts should be chosen based on the individual child and their interests, not on traditional gender norms.
It would be a shame to minimize a child’s interests because it didn’t match a specific gendered expectation. Let’s make sure we’re matching gifts to each child, honoring what they truly love.
Non-toy gifts are great in pairings
A lot of the gifts listed below have other gifts paired with them.
My mom and I both love to give a themed-gift to kids. A few items that go together is always a fun box to open or watch unfold during gift giving times.
Make sure to pay attention to the items I added as “pairings” – they’re fantastic as well.
RELATED: Check out two non-toy gift guides for best books for kids and best puzzles for kids.
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Paper Flying Dragons
Such a fun non-toy gift for kids who love paper airplanes and also have a passion for mythical creatures. This book comes with special paper and directions for how to fold flying dragons. It is awesome and my 8 year old is obsessed.
Gifts to pair with Paper Flying Dragons
- Dragon stuffed animal with baby dragons & eggs
- The Dragon Atlas: Legendary Dragons from Around the World (this is a brand new release – published October 1, 2024)
- Small dragon figurines/toys
Globe
A globe is a fantastic non-toy gift for a little learner. Grandma gifted this to my son when he was 5 years old and we’ve used it constantly for six years. It’s a great globe – I haven’t found a better one or any version that even compares to this one.
Gifts to pair with a globe
Stationary Set
I couldn’t love this little kit more. Picked it up for my 9-year-old: what a treasure. The cards are adorably (they fold up into animal faces), the carrying case is great, the stickers are *chef’s kiss*. This is a brand-new kit (released August 2024).
Small Piano Keyboard
Fantastic option for kids who are interested in learning piano but don’t have access to a full one. That was my then-7 year old. He got this for his birthday from grandparents (who were music majors in college and labored over finding him one with a good tone), and it’s been perfect as an “intro to piano” gift.
Screen Free Camera
I’m so obsessed with our CampSnap camera. It’s a digital camera but with no screen and no games, so it feels like an old 35mm. The pictures have a vintage filter too and have that feel of old Kodak prints. We have loved our camera, letting kids take pictures, but stay present in the moment because there’s no screen to see if they got the photo “perfect.” 10/10.
Metal Detector
Yep, it’s a metal detector and it’s awesome. If you have a budding treasure hunter, this is exactly right for them. This is a gender-neutral, multi-age hit on our street really all kids over age 5. The big kids have a little easier time holding which is why I chose this list. This is a really fun gift for a kid to receive – gets them outside and moving.
Art Kit
This has been a stand out through the years: I gave this to my daughter two Christmases ago and it’s still being used. So is the kit we bought for her best friend: he is still using it 2 years later. It’s a great set for kids and they love the way it’s laid out and packaged.
Shopping for an artsy kid? Check out my list of the best art supplies to give as gifts. It’s full of more perfect ideas for kids.
Cat’s Cradle
I know you smirked when you saw this old throwback. This book is awesome and Cat’s Cradle is a banger. I said what I said. Each of my kids has gone through significant “Cat’s Cradle” phases – right now, it’s my 8 year old. He kills it with this book (and my husband learned along with him). It’s pretty remarkable “these days” to see a kid completely occupied by a string… just a fun gift to consider.
Otamatone
This was a gift for my kids from their quirky aunt. And it’s hilarious, awesome, perfect, and really fun especially for my youngest who’s musical. The Otamatone is an electronic musical instrument shaped like a musical note. You play it by sliding a finger along its neck to change pitch and squeezing its mouth to alter the tone. There’s a video on the Amazon listing and it’s worth a watch.
Magic Kit
I have a kiddo who loves magic. This was a great set for him because it came with a cape, hat and gloves. He’s had this a few years now and it’s a really fun way for him to explore his showmanship.
“Just Checking In” Journal
I always found a journal intimidating as a tween so when I heard that this book was being released (it just came out in September), I couldn’t wait to buy it for my tween. The prompts are awesome, but there’s no pressure to write each day or go in any certain order. It’s a great option for thoughtful big kids.
Whittling Kit
Whittling took my kids and their friends by storm this year. From ages 6+, whittling has been all the rage. Of course, whittling needs lots of supervision and care so whether this will work for your child is up to you.
Kids Pod Swing (indoor or outdoor)
These are sweetest, coolest – just a great little space for growing big kids. They can relax, grab a book, unwind, etc… all in the comfort of their own pod. Lots of different colors available.
Telescope
This is a gift the whole family will love: a telescope. We have so enjoyed using a telescope to learn about space and track stars. If you have a child into outer space, take it up a notch with this gift.
My husband likes to track the International Space Station with our kids (and the neighbor kids). This is the website he uses.
Gifts that pair well with a telescope
Zither/Lap Harp
We gave this to my son for Christmas 2020 and it’s been the most fun for our whole family. We aren’t exactly musical, but this comes with sheet music that even we could follow. This is definitely a 5+ gift, but is used all the way up to my 42 year old husband.
Sewing Machine
This was my 9 year olds big gift last Christmas and it’s been a joyful year of learning to sew. If you have a child interested in sewing, snag this small adult machine instead of a kids machine. It sews beautifully and is a much better place to start this skill.
Pocket Microscope
We got this for my then-8 year old, but it was my then-4 year old that imprinted on it most. He LOVES seeing the world up close. This is a great way to introduce microscopes to any age.
Kindle Paperwhite Kids
This is NOT a Kindle Fire. This is NOT a tablet. This does not let kids play games. It’s just like an adult Kindle, but way less expensive. And it’s a more manageable and mobile way for children to take books with them.
You can purchase a subscription to the Amazon digital library. You can also hook this up with your local library (check with your library system first). My kids love their Kindles. They’ve been able to discover new books they would never have seen on a library shelf. This also travels really well.
Product does need WiFi to download books but once downloaded, the books can be read without Internet access.
Wireless Headphones
These have been great for us. My kids use them to listen to audio books on their Kindles or to connect through Bluetooth to other devices.
Karaoke Machine
Oh wow – have we had fun with this! It was a 9th birthday gift for a neighbor friend and all the kids gather around. Note: this does NOT come with pre-loaded music. We search YouTube on an iPad or phone for karaoke songs (Taylor Swift 4 Ever on this street) and it works great because the kids aren’t limited to a certain catalogue.
Lava Lamp
One of my favorite “non-toy gifts” to give kids. They’re magical, just like they were in the 70s. Lots of colors and styles are available, and these are often sold at local toy store (that’s where we get ours).
Watch
A basic watch like this is a gem. It helps kids learn to read an analog clock, which is a necessary but often forgotten skill. There are lots of colors available in this watch.
CD Player
Yes, you read that right. A CD player.
Here’s my plug for CD players: when kids use Alexa, Spotify, or an “audio player,” they lose the ability to stumble on new tracks. When they ask Alexa for a song, they can only ask for what they know. When they pick a character for an audio player, they’re limited to just 3-4 tracks.
CDs let kids discover. “Stumble upon” learning and discovery by chance is desperately missing from this Google-it or Ask Siri generation of kids (gosh that makes me sound old…).
Also, remember that libraries still check out CDs. Libraries don’t check out Alexa or “audio player” figures. CDs + CD player are a great way to introduce new music on a budget.
Albums my children love
Kids Calendar
We’ve owned a kids calendar since December 2015 when my oldest was 2.5. I’ve loved having one for my kids. This version (by Melissa and Doug) is what we had for many years.
Other calendar options
- This calendar has a smaller footprint: We used it in our homeschool closet
- This calendar is a splurge: It’s from a small business, wooden, and what we have now
Knitting Set
Do you have a big kid who wants to knit? This is a great option to start them on their knitting path. They learn so many skills with this set and create really awesome knitwear from the easy instructions.
Butterfly Garden
This is such a cool non-toy gift. It is absolutely magical to watch butterflies go through their metamorphosis. Talk about giving a child an experience they will never forget. The kit portion is reusable – you can buy new caterpillars each year.
Gifts that pair well with a butterfly garden
Stepping Stones
They don’t look like much but this indoor/outdoor product is brilliant for kids. After seeing how much my “Floor is Lava” loving kids took to these at a museum, I bought a set for my daughter’s birthday, and two years later, it’s still one of the most used outdoor toys for all the kids.
Flower Press
What a old school, simple, sweet joy this has been. My 8 year old spent all year learning how to press flowers. This takes patience and a calm hand, but it appeals to meticulous kids. It’s been a fun project.
Real Tools
I am a HUGE fan of kids have real tools to use as they develop skills. Will they hammer a finger? Sure will. But they’ll figure it out, just like we did. My kids and their friends (BOYS AND GIRLS) have loved this kit from ages 4+ (but you do what’s best for your family).
Gifts that pair well with real tools
- Nails and wood
- Other tools (age depending): a hacksaw and a manual hand drill
- Caution tape (trust me)
- Safety/traffic cones
- Kids construction costume
Paracord Jig Bracelet Maker
Do you remember making paracord bracelets or have you seen a paracord bracelet braided at a store? These took my kids by storm this year so we bought this jig, a bunch of ribbon, and we are swimming in bracelets. This is perfect for the 9+ crowd.
Jewelry box
Jewelry and treasure boxes are fantastic. This one has been with my daughter for years and has held so many trinkets and memories. You can also fill this with a few small tokens before you gift it.
Treasure box
A treasure box is another great option – and this style is perfect. It has 3-shelves and a clear top (it’s similar to a name brand many folks had in the 1980s/1990s…). Kids who fill their pockets each day with treasures might love a special place to put everything. You can also prefill this with things the child enjoys, like geodes, small animals, jewelry, lotion, etc.
Travel Watercolor Set
This blew my mind the first time I saw a child (10) with it and immediately bought one for my middle kid (7). What an awesome product. It’s perfection for kids who want to take their art outside, on vacation, or in the car.
Gifts that pair well with a watercolor set:
- Watercolor paper notebook: this paper is different and is incredible to paint on
- A Child’s Introduction to Art: this non-fiction book introduces kids to famous works of art
Personalized Note Pads
Who doesn’t love seeing their name in print?! For Christmas one year, I got my then 6-year-old a few personalized note pads and cards, and he LOVED it. It was sweet little gift.
Gifts that pair well with a note pad:
Air Fort
A fantastic “non-toy gift.” The gift of a fort. This giant tent inflates in seconds with a box fan (sold separately) to make a cozy, inviting, imaginative play space for kids to hang, but that’s also big enough for adults. It’s a great size and perfect for kids who love forts.
Wooden Sensory Tools
Look, I’m still forever a fan of kids and families using whatever random kitchen gadgets they have for a sensory bin, but if you are tired of sharing your measuring cups… these have been pretty spectacular.
Pairs well with a fresh bag of: Rainbow rice (put it in a mason jar with the gift for maximum cuteness).
Kid-Safe Knives
Have a child that loves being helpful and cooking? Check out these kid-safe knives and the gifts I’d pair with them as a great option for our budding chefs. We got my son this set around age 3.5 and it’s still been with us for more than 5 years.
My son is now 10 years old, a confident baker, and was ready to try a more real knife. I got him this kid-knife last year which he adores and feels very confident using.
Gifts that pair well with a kid-safe knives:
- This Kid-Friendly Cookbook is A+++ (for ages 5-8)
- A big kid-friendly cookbook (for ages 8+)
- A kid-sized apron
- Small colanders: I give these as gifts often
- Tiny kids pitcher for pouring: We can’t live without this
Kid Binoculars
We love having sets of binoculars just right for the kids (these come in several different colors). Great set for kids and a fun gimmick to pack on hikes to keep kids motivated.
Gifts that pair well with a binoculars:
- Compass: My kids think these are magical
- Hydration backpacks: Kids think these are so cool
- Bird Guide of North America: A great book for budding bird watchers
Desk Bells
Bless these sweet bells and the joy they’ve brought my youngest. This has been a huge reason for him learning note names, scale, and understanding of pitch. The music is easy for him to follow (my mom got this book with it).
LCD Microscope
This. Microscope. Kids (especially those under age 10) have a hard time with traditional microscopes seeing through the small eye piece. This takes away that variable AND everyone can see all at once. It’s a dream. Currently sold out – hoping it will come back in stock.
Frequently Asked Questions
That’s personal to each family and to the interests of the child. You may have a child who only asks for non-toy gifts. You may have a child who is only interested in toy gifts. Rather than look to what others do, go based on your child, their passions, and their wants.
I don’t usually give kids memberships as gifts because these are used by the whole family. A zoo membership at our house would be for everyone, not for one specific child.
As for subscriptions, I don’t use any toy subscription type service for my children because I like to be more personal with our selections (plus those services are expensive). We do like magazine subscriptions like Highlights, Ranger Rick, and Faces.
Memberships and things like magazine subscriptions are great whole family gifts for relatives and something we ask for regularly from extended family.
Our life. These are all items that either my family or a friend’s family own and love. I do my best to only put items on lists that have been field tested.
Susie Allison, M. Ed
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Susie Allison is the creator of Busy Toddler and has more than 2.3 million followers on Instagram. A former teacher and early childhood education advocate, Susie’s parenting book “Busy Toddler’s Guide to Actual Parenting” is available on Amazon.
Sherrie England says
Susie, I love Busy Toddler! As a grandmother of 3, I find your activity and gift suggestions so very helpful! Your lists are were I begin when shopping for my grandsons and the other little ones in my life. Thank you so much for sharing your expertise and personal experiences with others. I want to provide my grandsons with gifts that will provide fun and opportunities for imaginative play and learning. Others often comment on the gifts I give and I have to tell them the ideas didn’t originate with me.
Megan Maguire says
Hi Susie! Former teacher turned SAHM of a six and four year old. I just wanted you to know that I am devouring your site for Christmas ideas and have been for the last several years. I thought I was well versed on educational toys and activities and woah baby: I’m still learning LOADS. Thanks to you – the majority (99.9%) has come from your website. I cannot thank you enough. Not to be dramatic but looking back, I would be lost without you! Have wonderful holiday season with your family and thanks again!
Janelle says
Hey Susie!
Love all of your lists and you might update this a different time but the telescope link is now for a PacMan game
Keep up your fantastic work!!!
Susie says
Thanks Janelle! I got it updated!